Best apps for sexting

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Best app for encrypted messaging

Confide

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Best dating app for sexting

Plenty of Fish

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AdultFriendFinder

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Best anonymous sexting app

DUST

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Best free sexting app

Snapchat

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Best app for hookups

Tinder

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Zoosk

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In a world where online dating and casual hookups have become the norm, dating can still feel exhausting. Sometimes, just the thought of putting on "real" clothes, coming up with witty conversation starters, and commuting to the actual meetup spot can be tiring. No matter what kind of encounter you plan, when it comes to dating, there'll always be some sort of physical effort required.

The good news? There is one loophole: Sexting.

What is sexting?

Sexting is the art of sending sexually explicit photos or messages to one or more consenting people via text. Like sex itself, sexting "is an opportunity for you to liberate yourself, explore what you want in bed, and get to know your partner better," writes Mashable sex and relationships reporter Anna Iovine. "Sexting can benefit both you and your budding relationship (or hookup, or however you define it)."

Once viewed as taboo, sexting is now definitively mainstream. According to a 2023 survey of U.S. adults by the market research platform Statista, 77 percent of participants said they've sent at least one sext — that's up from 45 percent in 2019 and just 14 percent about 10 years ago.

Sexting's recent surge in popularity is due at least in part to the pandemic, which gave rise to a new era of digital dating. But it also helps that there are now a number of apps that make sexting easy and safer than standard SMS messages.

How to find the best sexting apps

Not all apps for sexting are created equal, and some of the best ones aren't even built for dating purposes.

To help you make the most of your sexting experience, we tested some of the top private chat apps. Based on our research and hands-on testing, we've narrowed our list to a few apps that prioritize privacy, safety, and user-friendliness for sexting. They're also pretty affordable, with some even offering free options.

Here are the best sexting apps for all your NSFW exchanges.

Our Pick
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Confide

Best app for encrypted messaging

Who it's for:

Confide is a secure messaging app that allows you to have honest, unfiltered, and confidential conversations. It's the go-to secure messaging app for executives, professionals in sensitive industries — and people who crave flirty, off-the-record chats.

With end-to-end encryption and self-destructing messages, your secrets are locked tight. There's no screenshotting or forwarding, and messages automatically delete from both users' devices after they're read.

Why we picked this:

Nothing quite knocks the libido out of you like finding out your private messages have been screenshot and shared against your will. While receiving a "screenshot notification" might be flattering in some situations, it's safe to say that most of us would prefer to have no incriminating screenshots floating around. This is where Confide comes to the rescue.

The app's core feature revolves around the "no screenshot" guarantee. Thanks to its innovative "ScreenShield technology," every message sent or received on Confide can only be viewed one line at a time.

To read, users either run their finger or mouse over the message line-by-line until they have read the entire thing (lines disappear immediately after they're read). Additionally, Confide takes extra measures to ensure your privacy by never displaying a user's name on the same screen as the message.

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Plenty of Fish

Best dating app for sexting

Who it's for:

Plenty of Fish (POF) isn't just about catching a date; it's also a great place to find a potential sexting partner. With its large user base and active community, you're bound to find someone interested in sharing an intimate moment. POF is a place where you can cast your net wide and connect with someone on the same page, whether you're looking for a casual fling or an occasional phone sex session.

Why we picked this:

POF reeled us in with its whopping 150 million registered users worldwide. Yes, you read that right — this sea's teeming with potential matches. And chances are, some are looking for a sexting experience like you.

Even if you're not here for sexting and more interested in casual dating or a serious relationship, POF's intro survey lets you be upfront about your intentions right from the get-go. Choosing "something casual/no commitment" pops you into a pool of other daters who are open to exploring what's out there, which could include sending nudes, phone sex, or more intimate conversations.

Plus, POF knows how to keep things discreet. It doesn't require you to connect to any social media when signing up. You don't even have to use your real name if you don't want to; a username will suffice. Once your profile is created, you can search random profiles based on the criteria of your choice, use their UltraMatch feature, which matches you based on compatibility, their “meet me” feature, which is the dating site's hot-or-not option, or see who’s nearby. All communication between members is free, so you don't have much to lose. 

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DUST

Best anonymous sexting app

Who it's for:

DUST is a secure messaging app for people who want to keep their conversations private without paying a premium. It features end-to-end encryption, self-destructing messages, and anonymous messaging.

While it may not be marketed as a sexting app, the fact that DUST keeps you anonymous and automatically scrubs your messages makes it ideal for anyone who wants to send explicit images or texts without leaving a trace.

Why we picked this:

DUST: it's like Snapchat with encryption. This app is easily one of the top options for message security and privacy. (It's also a good alternative to Wickr Me, which is set to shut down on December 31, 2023.)  

Messages vanish after 24 hours, no questions asked. Whether they've been read or not, they're history. And if you're worried about those late-night texts haunting you, DUST lets you erase messages not only from your device, but from your recipient's, too.

If you're worried about screenshots, DUST has your back with screenshot notifications. It's like having a trusty guard dog that'll bark if someone tries to capture your messages. As an added security bonus, your username is never visible on the message screen. No self-identifying information is required to sign up, nor is anything permanently stored.

It's worth noting that DUST does prevent screenshots in some areas of the app on Android devices. However, for other operating systems, such as iOS, anyone can still capture and save what you send. Keep that in mind and exercise caution if you use a non-Android device.

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Snapchat

Best free sexting app

Who it's for:

Snapchat is the OG nudes app, but it's evolved into a full-blown social media platform where users can share all kinds of content with their followers.

Even though it has a ton of other features, including videos and opportunities to meet new people, Snapchat still works pretty well as a sexting app — and it's a great free option.

Why we picked this:

Once known exclusively for sending explicit images, engaging in dirty talk, and anonymous sexting, Snapchat has moved up the app food chain, becoming a staple in the mainstream social media roster. We'd say it's right up there with Facebook, Instagram, and even TikTok. 

The app's core functionality allows you to send anything you want (naughty images, sexy voice messages, or a private text message), and it'll vanish as soon as the recipient opens it. Users can choose a time limit of 1 to 10 seconds or the "infinity" option, which lets your recipient view a photo for as long as they want before they close out of the window. And, like the other apps on this list, Snapchat sends screenshot notifications, so you can send bae a brief glimpse of the goods without worrying if they’re secretly showing it to others behind your back. 

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Tinder

Best app for hookups

Who it's for:

Tinder isn't a dedicated sexting app, but a dating platform known for its relaxed, hookup-friendly atmosphere. It's the perfect app for anyone interested in online dating without the pressure of commitment.  

Unlike other paid dating apps, Tinder attracts people who are open to casual dating. With its straightforward setup and effortless navigation, you can bypass those lengthy compatibility quizzes and concentrate on finding someone who's up for some steamy digital fun.

Why we picked this:

Tinder, the pioneer of the "swipe right for yes, left for no" concept, is undeniably the go-to choice for casual hookup encounters. Its user-friendly interface streamlines the browsing experience, sparing you from sifting through extensive profiles. Instead, you can focus on the real reason you're there — to sext.

While Tinder technically falls under the dating app category, its reputation leans towards casual liaisons rather than serious commitments. It draws people looking for something less binding, setting it apart from more serious dating sites like Match or eharmony.

What sets Tinder apart in the world of sexting is that a significant portion of its user base (over 70 percent, according to one survey) never actually meets up with matches in person. While this may not be ideal for traditional dating, it's an advantage for anyone looking for no-pressure, text-based connections.

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Zoosk

Best as a last resort

Who it's for:

While its marketing paints Zoosk as an app for finding long-term relationships and casual hookups, it often falls short of delivering a satisfactory experience for either group, which is exactly why it landed as a last resort on our list.

Why we picked this:

Zoosk's massive user base of over 40 million singles worldwide can be deceiving, as many accounts are inactive or even fake bots. Despite its outdated interface resembling something from 2009, Zoosk does have a valuable aspect for sexting: the photo verification factor. In a world where fake profiles and catfishing are prevalent, knowing that the person you're chatting with actually resembles their attractive pictures can elevate the excitement of your sexting experiences.

Unfortunately, Zoosk lacks screenshot protection, leaving your intimate exchanges vulnerable. However, investing in a paid membership can alleviate concerns about encountering inactive users and wasting time on individuals who aren't fully engaged with the app. It's also worth noting that Zoosk has faced legal challenges related to data breaches in the past.

Read our full review of Zoosk.

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How we tested

Here's how we tested and selected the best sexting apps for this guide:

  • Extensive research: We started our search by doing hours of research to see which apps were worth testing and which weren't. We used our findings to determine a list of potential candidates for our roundup.

  • Privacy features: Privacy is non-negotiable. We reviewed each app's privacy policies, data encryption practices, and security features. We only considered apps that take user privacy seriously and offer security measures, including blocking and reporting options.

  • User experience: We checked the user interface, app navigation, chat functionality, and more to ensure that each app is easy and enjoyable to use.

  • Compatibility: We tried to choose apps that work across various devices, including iOS and Android, and we noted whether web-based versions were available.

  • Hands-on testing: We downloaded and tested each app on multiple devices, from setting up accounts to exploring features and engaging in messaging. We aimed to test how each app performed in real-life scenarios.

Frequently Asked Questions


Sexting is pretty much an art form in itself. It's not easy mastering the perfect balance between being sexually explicit and tasteful, knowing when to be playful and serious, and understanding your partner's boundaries — especially if you're new to sexting or just met your potential sexting partner online.

Sure, you could argue that there are fewer inhibitions when chatting online, texting, or leaving saucy messages for your partner to find later on, but in all honesty, dirty talk comes with a few rules.

Here's your quick-start guide to sexting safely and responsibly:

  • Find an app that prioritizes user privacy: Privacy is often marketed as a priority for most sexting and dating apps, but not all apps are comparable from a security standpoint. While some private message apps like Confide and DUST have certain features to protect user privacy, such as end-to-end encryption and self-destructing messages, this doesn't mean a person can't snap a photo using the screenshot function or record a video with another device.

  • Don't forget to establish consent: Whether you're on a dating app, just met someone in a sex chat room, or are cruising the web for an anonymous sexting partner, there's one important rule that should never be overlooked: Get consent. Before you send an explicit image or message, check in with your partner (or potential sexting partner) beforehand.

  • Be mindful of boundaries and respect them: The internet can be a very scary place where fleeting moments of trust can ruin reputations and compromise personal (and sometimes professional) relationships. If someone asks you to keep something to yourself, do it. In that same vein, communicate your boundaries and expectations as well. And, if you're really worried, look for an app that features a screenshot protection option to prevent any potentially embarrassing or harmful images from being shared without your consent.

  • Think twice before including your face or other identifiable features: While it may be tempting to add a personal touch to your explicit photos or videos, it's best to keep identifiable features hidden if you're engaging in anonymous sexting or if you just met the person online. This can help protect your identity and reduce the risk of your intimate content being shared without your consent.


Real-life dating is obviously the best way to get to know somebody long-term, especially if you're looking for any kind of serious, in-person relationship. And real sex will always be better than sexting. However, sexting is an alternative that may benefit you in ways you didn't even think about.

  • Convenience: Whether you plan to wine and dine on your date or just hook up, meeting IRL always requires some extra effort. For those with super hectic schedules or those who just don't have room in their life (for whatever reason) for a steady in-person relationship, sexting is practically a saving grace. After all, your sex drive doesn't go away just because you're busy. Sexting allows you to take care of your sexual needs without putting yourself all the way out there.

  • Freedom: As is the case with most behind-the-screen activities, with sexting, you can let go of your inhibitions and get comfortable exploring your sexual side. Knowing there's a certain barrier between you and the other person may allow you to experiment with language and ideas that you wouldn't otherwise explore in person.

  • Safety: Sexting can come with some privacy risks, depending on the platform you do it on. But to its credit, sexting offers an element of safety that in-person meetings don't. Sexting allows you to interact with both people you know and total strangers without putting yourself in dangerous or unwanted physical situations. Your experience should always be what you want it to be, and if a sexting session isn't going in the direction you want, it's just a matter of closing an app.

  • Exploring trust and intimacy: Getting comfortable with another person in close quarters doesn’t always come naturally for everyone — but opting for sexting gives way to a new level of exploration in terms of intimacy and trust. You don’t ever have to meet the person behind the screen if you don’t want to, but being able to practice feeling vulnerable without any strings attached can be a great lesson in being more open.

  • Fun: Let’s be honest for a second here. A night of sexting is always going to be a lot more fun than endlessly swiping right on a dating app and starting the same conversation over and over. Having the option of opening an app on your phone and engaging in a little virtual foreplay offers instant gratification and (almost) guaranteed pleasure.

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Amy-Mae Turner

Amy-Mae is a freelance writer covering tech at Mashable.

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Tabitha Britt
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Tabitha Britt is a freelance writer, editor, SEO & content strategist. Aside from writing for Mashable, Tabitha is also the founding editor-in-chief of DO YOU ENDO — a digital magazine by individuals with endometriosis, for individuals with endometriosis. She has a Master's degree in Creative Publishing and Critical Journalism from The New School of Social Research and is a grad of Sextech School. You can find more of her work in various online pubs, including National Geographic, Insider, Kinkly, and others.


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